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i’m a mallet percussionist with a thing for trumpets, and every time i fall for one, i tell myself that they’ll be different. they always turn out to be jackasses.
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Don’t you EVER do this to a person’s hair. That is a VIOLATION of a person’s body! If you think “she deserved it” then you deserve to be punished for harassment because doing anything to a person’s body without their permission is harassment. And since hair is a part of a person;s body, you have no right to touch, play with, cut, or mess up a person;s hair witout explicit permission.
Just ASK the girl to move her hair off your desk or to have the desk moved away a little.
“BUT IT’LL GROW BACK” Not always! My mother had long gorgeous hair and her grandmother cut it all off and it NEVER grew back the same length again! She was DEVASTATED.
This girl is probably FURIOUS and she has every right to be!
Next time someone thinks it’s “funny” to cut a person’s hair without their permission, I hope they get punched in the face.
“Funny” but True story: Cutting off a chunk of someone’s hair without their consent is actually, legally considered assault and battery with a deadly weapon. A girl in my sister’s class did this exact thing to her once, and she reported it to the police. The girl was legit charged with assault and battery with a deadly weapon. Yep. Hair is considered, legally, to be part of someone’s body, hence the law.
Here is the Law: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Assault_occasioning_actual_bodily_harm#Cutting_hair
Also, the mentality of someone who sees no problem literally just reaching out and doing this to someone is sociopathic. Like, I would NEVER even think to reach out and cut off a piece of someone’s clothing even, much less their hair.
But yeah. For future reference: If anyone does this to you in class. You can report it to your local police station.
Someone pretended to do this to me in high school. They had fake hair in their hand and snipped the scissors close to my head and laughed hysterically. They held the hair in front of my face and taunted me while everyone laughed too. Instead of lashing out and hitting them (like high school me always did) or taking the hair, I burst into tears. I just started crying hysterically.
Why? Because someone thought it would be funny to cut my hair without my permission. Because I had spent YEARS growing my hair out after a terrible haircut (that I brought on myself). And because no one thought it was wrong that they did this.
The teacher came over at the sight of me crying and made everyone stop laughing. She asked me what was wrong and I pushed the fake hair toward her (still not knowing it was fake), put my head in my hands and kept crying. I expected her to tell me to just take the joke and it’s nothing to cry about. Instead she held the hair up and asked, “Who did this?” there were a few snickers, “This is not funny, who did this?” I hadn’t seen who did it because they were behind me so I couldn’t tell her either.
Finally someone pointed at a kid and he said, “It was a joke! The hair is fake!” the teacher walked over to him and told him to gather his stuff. He said something like, “She’s being a baby it was a joke!” to which my teacher replied, “You pretended to cut off her hair without her consent, that is not a joke.” she sent him to the office and he wasn’t allowed back in her class for a week.
Also worth noting that some religions (the one that immediately comes to mind is Sikhism, though it’s not the only one) consider hair sacred or blessed, and forbid cutting or removing it! Not only is cutting someone’s hair without their consent assault, but it could also be violating their religious beliefs/practices!
if u cut off my hair the scissors are going into your neck next
It’s so crazy how when I was younger, I told myself “I’ll never smoke weed”. Then I smoked weed. Got a little older and said “I’ll never drink alcohol”. I drank alcohol. A couple of months later, “I’ll never do cocaine”. Did cocaine. The list goes on and on for heroin, meth, etc. I’m a garbage disposal and will put any substance in my body that will get me out of reality. Today, I am trying to STOP running away from my issues and deal with them head on. I’m tired of suppressing my feelings and stuffing my problems down so far, in hopes that they just disappear - when I know that just makes it worse. The more you resist, the more it persists. All I can do is try to be patient with myself and know that things don’t change over night. Keep moving forward, never back. ❤
Vegas
Summary: you loose a bet against bucky and get married to Steve in las Vegas
Pairing:Steve x reader x Bucky
A/n: requested by anon
Warnings : fluff, drinking, swearing
Its been a rough week for Steve. Briefings, meetings missions. He barely had time for anyone not even you and it drove him crazy. He just wanted to forget everything and run to your shared room. But he knew he couldn’t.
It was Friday and the last mission for Steve.
Of that week.
Anyway, he didn’t care he just wanted to spent his time with you.
He stepped out of the elevator into the common room. He saw bucky sitting on one of the big couches reading a book. He noticed him looking up to him concerned but Steve didn’t think about it. His week was too stressful he didn’t want to have another problem.
He knew there were times in life where he just had to stand up straight and make the best out of everything. Times where he couldnt bother to think about a break.
And its okay but he didnt want anything else to go wrong.
He also knew it was selfish but he would talk to bucky later.
He walked to the kitchen and around the kitchen isle. He opened the fridge and took a bottle of water out of it before turning around again. He looked at bucky who was also looking at him. He couldn’t help but notice that something was wrong. It was Steve’s time to be concerned.
He knew his friend wouldn’t talk to him if he didn’t ask so he opened his mouth to speak. “What’s up buck?” He asked with a frown, opening his water bottle and taking a sip.
“Who are you?” He answered with cold eyes still the confused look on his face. He slowly laid the book down and stood up carefully. Steve’s heart stopped and he almost choked on his water.
He coughed as he looked at bucky with wide eyes.
Then however he noticed something. His lips, they trembled. He held a laugh back. Bucky played a joke on him, he held a laugh back and obviously Steve didn’t appreciate that.
He closed his water bottle and slammed it on the counter angrily. “Damn it buck !”
That’s when he lost it. Bucky started laughing. He laughed hard and even had to fight for air.
Bucky sat down again clutching his stomach still giggling as he wiped a tear from his face.
“You are an asshole” And he started laughing again, this time Steve joined in with a slight smile.
It took bucky about five minutes till he finally could bring himself to stop laughing trying to take deep breaths but was interrupted by small giggles every now and then.
Steve sat down next to him and drank a bit water waiting for his friend to catch himself.
As bucky finally calmed down Steve went in to speak “so how were things here?“
Bucky took his book from the table and opened it before answering “well nothing special happened except the one time vision almost poisoned us with his cooking”
Steve had to chuckle at that , knowing very well what his food tastes like. “And tony has a party planed for today so you got perfect timing pal.”
Steve groaned he hated Tony’s parties they were too overdone every time and he didn’t even know the people that came to them. He wasn’t even sure of Tony knew them.
Steve closed his water bottle and stood up taking a last look at his friend at the couch who had his had down to the book. “What are you reading there?“
Bucky quickly looked up as if he forgot Steve was talking to him, but dipped his head back down “Oh this ? Just some history as always.” He smiled back up to him but not for long before gluing his eyes back to the printed words.
Steve walked down the hall and away from his friend , quickly shouting a ‘have fun’ over his shoulder.
He opened the door and stepped into your shared room a smile appearing on his lips as his eyes landed on you. You were laying on the bee in sweatpants and one of Steve’s shirts listening to music. You didn’t hear Steve come in.
He made its way over to the bed standing directly in front of you.
The shadow made you stir and you involuntary opened your eyes being greeted with a huge smile. You jumped up from the bed almost knocking Steve and yourself down in the progress and leaped your arms around his neck.
You tackled him to the ground and both of you started to laugh as you hugged him tight. You let go of each other after exchanging a few kisses.
You were rambling as you talked. “Why didn’t you tell me you were coming ? I would’ve come and get you. I look not the way I should look like. Why did it go so fast ? Are you okay ?” He broke your babbling with a kiss and could feel you smile into it.
He pulled away looking at you. You slowly opened your eyes and looked at his blue ones.
“Hi” he said softly
“hi” you smiled.
“I missed you”
“I missed you too.” You kissed each other another time and got up from the ground deciding to spend the last hours together before you had to go to the annoying party.
You watched as much game of thrones you could in that short of a time. You knew Steve didn’t like it. He always complained about how there were kids envolved in shooting that sort of ‘unnecessary sexual content.’
He liked the idea of it, the show, but not the way it was shown which made you laugh every time. If you were for real you’d say you only watch it with him because of his comments.
But unfortunately the time went by and it soon was too late to start another episode. You both got ready and stepped out of the room. Dressed in all black tux and a matching black dress.
“You look gorgeous (y/n)”
Steve said with a warm smile on his face as he reached for your hand and walked out of the room with you.
You smiled back at him softly, looking up at him as he was walking.
Both you and Steve were at the bar. He was standing next to you his back resting against the counter. You were sitting on the bar stool playing with the straw in your drink. It was clear to see that both of you were bored as hell and just wanted to go away.
Bucky seemed to notice the lag of interest of you two and made its way over with a smile. It wasn’t that he was enjoying parties or liked them, he was just good at pretending.
So when he reached his friends his smile disappeared from his face and he groaned as he held up his hand to order a drink. “This place is shitty”
“wise words were told, god bless bucky barnes” you said annoyed as you held up your drink before taking a sip. You sat it back down and roled your eyes at both of the men.
You leaned in “this place is so boring” you whispered with a tired look, making both of them chuckle.
Bucky turned back to the crowd looking over it, his eyes landing on a familiar figure. He turned around again and smirked making both of you look at bucky suspiciously. “Did you guys know tony knows the song text to star spangled man?”
Steve looked at him and frowned ,not really knowing what to respond to this.
You on the other hand erupted in laugher “what?” You cried out breathlessly between laugher.
“That’s… Flattering” Steve said in confusion making you laugh even more. You clutched your chest as tears threatened to fall from your eyes.
You slowly calmed down both men looking at you. You took deep breath finally being able to controls yourself.
“Its not flattering” bucky said once you were quiet making Steve frown “he learned it cause his dad sang it under the shower and it was audible in the whole house.” He smirked.
And there you lost it again. You started laughing one more time the image of Howard stark singing not going out of your head. The same picture in Steve’s head made him wince though.
You wiped away the tears as you looked at bucky who was smiling at you softly. Both of them enjoyed hearing you laugh and he was happy he was able to make a laugh escape your lips. But he soon went serious again and looked at Steve.
“You hate this place as much as me right?” He asked and Steve nodded “let’s make it more interesting” bucky smirked.
you shot up from the stool standing in front of him “yes please” a low chuckle escaped Steve’s lips and bucky smiled at your excitement.
“I bet you both can’t make tony sing it in ten minutes.” He smirked.
Steve attempted to refuse because he knew bucky had something else in the back of his head but you were faster. “What do I get when i win?” You asked.
“When you win I’ll take both of your paperwork for the next six weeks.” You looked back at Steve who was considering the offer now as well. He hated his paperwork and now was a good time to get rid of it.
“What do you get of we loose?” He piped up.
“If you two loose you go to las Vegas and get married in one of these tiny churches.”
Your blood ran cold. It was never really something Steve and you talked about. It was not a problem for you to not be married, you know people can love each other and don’t need a ring to know or show it. But it still was something you wanted to have in your life one day.
You didn’t think about it or asked Steve, instead you agreed to bucky. You were sure you could make Tony sing it. Steve looked at you as you ordered two vodka, he didn’t know what he should think of this. Was he too late again?
He watched you as you make your way over with the two glasses in your hand and started talking to tony.
He shortly followed after noticing the glance bucky gave him.
Ten minutes later and you lost track of how many questions you asked. There were ‘what’s your favourite song?’
‘Did your dad sing under the shower?’
‘Do you sing under the shower?’ And multiple other questions.
But none of the answers where what you wanted to hear. Steve made some attempts to get the song out of him as well, his last was even directly asking if he’d sing it with him but nothing ever worked, not even you trying to get him drunk.
After your ten minutes were over you made your way over to the bar where bucky stood and smirked your way. You left tony behind in confusion but he actually didn’t care as he went on partying.
You sat down at the chair, Steve next to you and you both ordered ankther drink. None of you says something not even bucky who was clearly enjoying himself.
It was the next day and both of you stood in the middle of your room. You wore a white dress with cutouts on your waist. It was tightly fitting and hugging your curves but far from a wedding dress. It was the only white dress you had so this had to work.
Steve even got dressed in another tux. He stared at the back of your head deep in thoughts, watching you adjusting your make up.
”(Y/n)?” he mumbled softly. You hummed in response as you put your lipstick on.
You turned around looking at him.
He made its way over to the dresser drawer rummaging through his shirts. He pulled a stock of shirts out and took something else from the bottom of the drawer.
Your hand flew to your mouth and tears threatened to fall from your eyes. Steve kept standing there for a moment staring at the item in his hand.
He turned to you and began to speak “I wanted to wait two more month till our anniversary.” He began making you smile at him “ but we don’t have time for that anymore ” he chuckled “so (y/n) would you do me the honor of marrying me ?….. Voluntary?“
“Yes” you laughed and ran over to him. You tackled him and kissed him deeply. He slipped the ring onto your finger and rested his forehead against yours.
“I love you” he whispered softly, staring deeply into your eyes. You kissed him in response. The kiss was soft and slow and you lost yourself in it before he pulled apart. “Lets get married” he smiled.
You smiled back at him as well “let’s get married” you responded and took his hand leading him out of the room.
Both of you made your way down to the kitchen, and you glanced down at the beautiful diamond ring in your finger every now and the on the way, smiling yo yourself.
All of the avengers, except bucky, sat at the table and eyed you and Steve suspiciously, clearly confused as to why you were wearing such cloth.
Nat was the first one to stand up and walked to you grinning. “Finally you made a move rogers” she said punching his arm playfully and hugging you. “You need way to much time.”
You laughed at her outburst and looked over at Steve. “Well technically it was bucky who made a move.” Steve muttered as he scratched the back of his neck sheepishly.
You laughed at nat whose eyes went wide ready to smack him again but Clint spoke up first “any of you gonna tell us what’s happening?”
You pointed your index finger at him and spoke up “you” ,you pointed at tony “you”, and then at wanda “and you” and finally made a circling move with your finger, pointing at all of them at once. “You all a get dressed.” You said making a short pause.
You held up your left hand and showed them the ring “we are getting married today.” You smiled. The room erupted in cheers and all of them congratulated the both of you.
Bucky came in from behind you buttoning the jacked of his tux up “y'all ready to get married?” He asked in a rushed tone making all of you laugh.
Its been a hell of a ride. It was amusing to see all the avengers in tuxes and dresses in a quinjet, given by the fact that they usually only went in there in their combat cloth. You smiled the whole way over to Vegas , holding Steve’s hand and looking out of the window, lost in your thoughts.
“Do you (y/n)(y/l/n) want to take Steven grand rogers as your husband?“
“Yes I do” you said with a smile.
“Do you Steven grand rogers, want to take (y/n)(y/l/n) as your wife ?“
"I do”
"Then you may kiss the bride.” He said with a smile.
Steve kissed you deeply and the room behind you erupted into cheers.
It wasn’t much but it was what you wanted. All of your friends where there at the best day in your life and you wouldn’t want it to be any different. The fact that your best friend made you get married making the whole thing even better.
You walked over to bucky and pressed a kiss to his cheek hugging him tight.
All of you went to a sushi restaurant ordering some and eating it in the quinjet on the way home to celebrate the day.
You looked up from your food, like Steve who sat next to you. You smiled at each other before a humming sound made you look in front of you.
It was tony who looked down at his food and shoved a bit fish into his mouth. He continued humming the melody and as you listened closer you couldn’t believe your ears.
You son of a bitch” you yelled angrily making Tony’s gaze shoot up to you. “Couldn’t you have sang it yesterday ?!"
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